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How many cases of’ ‘Two Tumblers’ were practiced by the Brahmins? It is a fact that the practice of ill-treating the so-called scheduled caste is by the other communities and not by Brahmins. I noted in the progarmme that(though I am aware of it) that as to who are most open to inter caste marriages economic status being alright, it is the Brahmins (who are called the Higher caste, though they do not declare it!), they are in the fore front! It is fashionable to decry Caste without understanding the Concept which is based on Human nature. People with similar way of living form into groups and they stick together. In India it is fashionable to break down any cause to caste.Ĭaste is nothing a feeling that one higher than the other.Įvery one wants to assert that he a cut above the rest.
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The chances of Love marriages failing due to different Life Styles are greater. Parents arrange marriages with the intention of making their children happy and at the same time ensure that the couple have the least point of known differences.Īnd this is not to say that all arranged marriages are successful and Love Marriages are doomed to fail. If this is so, what about the marriages from entirely different back ground including from the time one wakes up? This is natural as two personalities can never be identical. What we ought to be is different from what we are.Įven when people marry from similar backgrounds arranged by the parents one finds it difficult to adjust. If one of the partners were to hail from another Religion, it becomes very oppressive to adjust to their behavior. Love is fine but the question of adjustment in daily life?
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The main concern of the parents, as is normal with a parent, is whether the Girl would suit the family or would end up breaking it.īeing from two different environment- whether it would be easy to make adjustments for day-to-day Life. The problems for Love marriages with out parents approval in India:Ģ.In case they fall into hard times, there is none to help them.ģ.If there is a misunderstanding between the couple, there is nobody to turn to diffuse the tension.Ĥ.Parents face social ostracism of sorts from the Society, even from the enlightened sections of the Society.ĥ.Parents can not take part in any social discussions in Public, being branded as the parents of the ‘Eloped’Ħ.Even if the couple who get married against their parents wishes, feel that the pain they have to undergo when their parents disown them and feel totally humiliated when their children do not receive the warmth and affection from their parents as Grand father and Grand Mother.ħ.Parents though they said they were against these marriages, were favorably inclined to agree if the Boy has no vices and earn reasonably well to support a wife. They found that getting their children married pose a daunting problem. In general, both people who are against and for love marriages greed that Love marriages with out parents’ approval leave one in pain and the couple fend for themselves with out the approval from the relatives and the Society. Protagonist for Love marriages’ assertion that it is only marriages that nurse he well-being og the Society and they talked as if Love marriage alone is the most important point in one’s Life! To be fair the anchor, as usual, did not have any pre conceived notions on the subject and drew the participants out. Why are some people against Love marriages even at this Age?īefore we proceed to analyse the points, let me add a few points on my impressions of the Show. This Talk show is a very rare show where there is some sense and purpose and is never staid or Stale. I watched the successful Talk how ‘ Neeya Naana‘ in Star Vijay on 21 January. The spate of Divorces of late have reignited the resistance to Love marriages, when it was on the wane and Love marriages were not beginning not to be frowned upon.
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Though the number of love Marriages have increased in India, there are still lingering doubts about the success rate of these Marriages. The issue of Love Marriage occupies an important decision-making point in India,